Your question is clear, no misspellings .... but the question is a mess of typos and garbage. No one can answer this. As far as I know, no family court would be taking a case in which you gave $60 to someone to hold and then they call the cops when you want the $60 back .... and, from the way you worded this, it sounds like the police had her give the money back to you. Wouldn't you be the one taking her to court if she refused to give you your money back. And what relevance does a checkbook have to do with this. You wouldn't be guilty of anything unless you took a check, wrote it out for $60, forged her signature and then cashed it. What could she possibly hope to accomplish in family court? There was no theft of her funds.