How do you tell the bride to back off and let the MOH/BR plan shower since we are paying for the shower?

Bride is being very bossy and picky as far as what food is served, decoration, and drinks. She is on a tight budget for her wedding but seems to think there is no budget for shower . As far as I am concerned she should not be involved with the actual planning of shower other then date and guest list which seems to... show more Bride is being very bossy and picky as far as what food is served, decoration, and drinks. She is on a tight budget for her wedding but seems to think there is no budget for shower . As far as I am concerned she should not be involved with the actual planning of shower other then date and guest list which seems to grow on a daily basis. PLEASE HELP!
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