I'm guilty, I've said that on here, lol. I've said that about the men in Northern California, where I live now. It's because they are not very physically appealing to me, but then I'm comparing them to men in Southern California who live along the coast and love going down to the beach & spend their free time at the gym or partying, so it's not a fair comparison I guess. I'm trying to admire the positive qualities in them/him, but it's not what I am used to. I guess men who are driven to success are a good thing and with me getting older (I'm 24) that should be my goal, BUT I'd be lying if I said that physically I'm not still into the guy with the tan skin, white teeth, muscles and dresses well. It's funny though, because I used to date those kinds of guys and they were usually bad in relationships. Earlier this year after the guy I dated until January turned out to have a fiancee, I decided to date nerdy men, and since then, every guy I've dated so far has bored me in a way, but then maybe I'm just being rude. I have a dream man in my mind, which is NEVER good because fantasies for the opposite sex never come true. People are real, fantasies are not.