Asking married man to dinner?

I know I may be in the middle of my friends marriage. The wife has asked me and her husband to stop hanging out so much together. I just want to be his friend. The other night she got really mad at him (& me, but didn't say anything to me) when she saw two texts I sent him asking him to go to dinner. I know... show more I know I may be in the middle of my friends marriage. The wife has asked me and her husband to stop hanging out so much together. I just want to be his friend. The other night she got really mad at him (& me, but didn't say anything to me) when she saw two texts I sent him asking him to go to dinner. I know she had just asked me to leave him alone, but I don't think I am doing anything wrong if he wants to go. He's a grown man. Am I wrong?
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