I have to say that I don't appreciate you calling this a game. I know it wasn't meant to be harmful, but I'm a survivor of sexual abuse and attempted rape and it's not something to joke around about. I know you weren't trying to insult anyone, but just be careful.
There are a lot more in my area than I thought, and I live in a very nice town. This was a trigger for me and I should've known better than to look. Now I'll be paranoid wherever I live. They're everywhere. They're unavoidable. And I literally broke down crying seeing that it seems like 9/10 of them were convicted of assault towards a child under 13. Literally made me gag a few times.
EDIT: It's kind of funny, people saying, "I never hear of it happening by me."
It's not something they report on the nightly news. It's a really, really personal matter and there's no need for it- it would just scare people. It happens everywhere and it's unavoidable. My case wasn't presented on the news, and it shouldn't have been, and it never, ever will be. Why should it? Why are my neighbors entitled to hear something like that?
EDIT: I don't mean to be rude or anything, I promise. How was I supposed to know you were a victim? You can't tell by first glance with anyone, which is why I'm so protective about the issue. You never know what could trigger someone, and I guess your choice of "whimsical word" slightly offended me. I think it's only fair that I show my support and protect and stand up for the other girls and guys out there that suffered and feel a little uncomfortable with the word choice, too. I'm not saying the idea behind this question is out of line or anything- actually, I think it's very interesting, and I spent quite a bit of time searching my area. I think it's good to be aware. And maybe being lighthearted and joking around about it is your way of dealing with your past, and that's fine. But don't penalize me because of the way I deal. :)
Okay, seriously? Now it's just getting silly. Why am I not allowed to express that I was uncomfortable with your wording? I have clearly stated that I know you weren't trying to be offensive, and I respect that you were trying to be "whimsical." But that doesn't mean I change my mind. A step cousin five years older than me started abusing me when I was seven by taking me on a canoe when we were camping, taking my top off and touching me. It ended with him, almost 7 years later, dragging me into his bedroom and pinning me down, attempting to rape me. That was when I was thirteen, only 3 years ago. I'm allowed to be sensitive about this. I'm allowed to have an opinion and express it. I don't particularly feel I was being "snarky" or "narcissistic" by expressing this. You are twisting my words and reading WAY too far into my answers. Please explain how I'm being narcissistic? Or snarky? I just don't see it. I tried very hard not to be. Your finger pointing is ridiculous. I have never once called you a name, just expressed the fact I didn't like your word choice. I think there is a deeper issue if you feel the need to attack me like this.