How can I become a better friend to girls?
i'm a guy and almost 18 years old, still no license or permit. next year IM going to be going to college, and I am really terrible socially. even with guy friends, I run out of things to say all the time. I never was friends with any girls, I just never was confident enough to talk to girls. recently I've been able to trying to talk to girls about class work at school but never talked about anything else, and the conversation would end really awkwardly. I watch basketball, and play videogames and make hiphop beats. I dont care about making girlfriends as of now, I only want to have friends, especially girls, also for example in a conversation to a guy I would say last nights basketball lakers game was great did you see it, then I would say did you see a certain part of the game and then after they reply, I end up in one of those awkward silent moments. I also don't know how to ask a girl for her number. and how do guys talk to girls who are only friends, and how often do they text, and what do they text. please be in depth. also how do I ask a girl to take a picture with you as friends, and how do I ask guys to take a picture with you, also please help me with every single question here, and Karma will help you and i'll help if you have any questions, thank you soo much in advance.
- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
Just try and be yourself around girls. If you see a girl or a group of girls near you and they don't look like they are having a private conversation go over and introduce yourself. Eventually you will find a group of girls or a couple of girls that will accept you as a friend. Don't be over the top when you talk to them the first couple of times, just be relaxed and cool. When you gain friendship casually ask for their numbers, but only once you get to know them. Text them when you need to ask them something but don't text or call them too often because you will seem clingy. Basically just be yourself and try to talk to lots of people who seem nice. The more people you talk to the more friends you will gain. Try not to be shy or clingy. Good Luck
- Anonymous4 years ago
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