There is a side to this that no one wants to point out...
Women killing and maiming their partners is sexy!
They are always 'romanticized' in this society.
A guy kills several women, he's a sick SOB serial killer.
Done, and done!
A woman does the same, and she's a 'black widow', books are written, movies are made.
A man mutilates a woman's genitals, and they'll kill him quite quickly.
Lorena Bobbit mutilates her husbands genitals, and jokes are made of it. (tee hee!)
She spends 45 days undergoing psych eval, and walks free.
Any guy who shot his nude lover in the shower, after a weekend of sex, would not get 2 days' worth of a trial.
Guilty and await the sentencing hearing, death sentence expected.
Only in this society would the role reversal be so disgustingly obvious.
That's the world you live in.