When you finally do have sex... sorry, capital S Sex ;)... when you finally do you're going to be gentle and respectful and all. But once the first time is over, don't expect "Ok! That's it! We're all in now!" and expect sex sports, porn sex, wildness and her being a slutty whore for you.
I know a dude who did that to his virgin wife. They waited. He was a gentleman the first time. And then after that didn't understand why now that she wasn't a virgin anymore she couldn't just loosen up.
Women who stay virgins on purpose, the best I can tell, do so because of hang ups... religion, sexual, body issues, etc. Try to recognize that once you're already "in" so to speak.
John S. Don't be so effing judgmental. The couple I spoke about ended in divorce because the guy was self-centered. He waited and expected a medal, caused her a lot of stress and anxiety, she never trusted him and the more he pushed and demanded his entitlements as a husband, the worse she felt about herself. I know, she is a close family member and he was a good friend who I realized was one of those types who was "such a good guy!" but a real d!ck when no one else was watching.
So the advice I gave was real and on the mark for what he asked for later down the line to supplement the answer for what he can do now. It's all information that helps.