10 points! Should I tell him I'll be in town?

A few months ago I was briefly "seeing" someone in a city about 30 minutes away. What I thought was completely platonic at first soon became an intense few weeks of us going out for dinner and drinks then back to his place. We got into an argument at the end of those few weeks but have since reconciled. However, I suggested that perhaps we shouldn't see each other for awhile.

I'll be back in the area on Saturday and am debating if I should tell him that I'll be in town. It would be nice to see him, but since I was the one who initiated our texts after we reconciled, I'm worried that he's totally uninterested in seeing me anymore.

Should I tell him or just let it go? The last time we "spoke" was when we texted each other Merry Christmas in December. (I texted him first.)

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    You had a platonic relationship that turned into a romance, so chances are, you'll be able to rekindle that spark, also since you have both reconciled, you are perhaps not on amazing terms, but not on awful ones either. If you just messaged him saying that you'll be around, you could hang out as friends and see where it goes from there. He might have moved on, but by asking him, you'll find out where you stand with him.

    Hope I helped, good luck!

  • 8 years ago

    If he dose not text you then the chances are that he dose not like you any more but on the other hand he may be worried that if he texts you he may realise that he still has feelings for you so if you do tell him that you are back he may take you back but only as a rebound.

    Be careful and don't let your heart get broken.

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