The feminist movement was necessary for women to have social equality. The objective of Feminism of today amounts to denigrating men and empowering women. If people really wanted equality, they would label themselves as 'humanist'. Society has a very convoluted way of sorting out its problems. Whenever an oppressed group gets their platform, society swings the pendulum all the way to the side of those who were originally oppressed, opposed to putting it in the center where true equality lies. Sitcoms, TV commercials all paint a picture of a buffoonish man who is a bumbling fool, a horrible parent and cannot seemingly do anything right without the stamp of a woman upon it. The feminist language does a good job of man-shaming with cliche-ish garbage. The problem is that when a woman gets treated badly in a relationship--by one, two or even three men--they judge an entire gender by saying all men are horrible human beings. No, not all men are horrible human beings--just the ones you handpicked for yourselves.
In the 1980's and early 90's--feminists of America wanted to tone down natural boyish/masculine tendencies. Whenever a boy showed any signs of natural male aggressiveness or hyper-ness, they plies these kids with Ritalin and other ADHD drugs to make them like marshmallows. Women who subscribe to these types of things that I have mentioned above, are not at all striving for equality--they are trying to squash men into the ground. When women want to include in their movement male problems of today-- without judging all males of being misogynists for wanting to discuss their issues--I will be part of it. Until then, I have zero use for you people. I will never show any deference or respect for any person that does not give me the basic 101 respect that I deserve, as an individual--then I do not respect you. The laws have been so slanted in courts and women initiate divorce nearly 85% of the time, for less than valid reasons, other than for your own needs. During the divorce proceedings you take the mans house, half of his money, alimony and child support--to where he can never repair his life to normalcy.
It would serve men rather well in America if they never marry an American woman. You are setting yourself up for misery. Go find a Euro-wife, or South American beauty or Asian lady who has not been indoctrinated by the American femin-nazi movement. They are not pushovers, will tell you straight up how they feel but at the end of the day when you walk in from work, they will run up to you, kiss you madly and are actually happy to see you. American women of today are perennial victims--and they relish being there. These women actually want to love and please their man-- and are happy to cook for you. In turn when a man feels truly appreciated, he will do anything to make his wife happy. Not be in some competition.