Senior Citizens. Do you know the seven deadly sins of narcissism?

Do you know someone that exibits these traits or signs? Can they be considered dangerous to be around? Would you even want to take the chance? I'll list them for you. Yes or no answers are OK. No need to elaborate. 1.Shamelessness: Shame is the feeling that lurks beneath all unhealthy narcissism, and the... show more Do you know someone that exibits these traits or signs? Can they be considered dangerous to be around? Would you even want to take the chance? I'll list them for you. Yes or no answers are OK. No need to elaborate.

1.Shamelessness: Shame is the feeling that lurks beneath all unhealthy narcissism, and the inability to process shame in healthy ways.
2.Magical thinking: Narcissists see themselves as perfect, using distortion and illusion known as magical thinking. They also use projection to dump shame onto others.
3.Arrogance: A narcissist who is feeling deflated may reinflate by diminishing, debasing, or degrading somebody else.
4.Envy: A narcissist may secure a sense of superiority in the face of another person's ability by using contempt to minimize the other person.
5.Entitlement: Narcissists hold unreasonable expectations of particularly favorable treatment and automatic compliance because they consider themselves special. Failure to comply is considered an attack on their superiority, and the perpetrator is considered an "awkward" or "difficult" person. Defiance of their will is a narcissistic injury that can trigger narcissistic rage.
6.Exploitation: Can take many forms but always involves the exploitation of others without regard for their feelings or interests. Often the other is in a subservient position where resistance would be difficult or even impossible. Sometimes the subservience is not so much real as assumed.
7.Bad boundaries: Narcissists do not recognize that they have boundaries and that others are separate and are not extensions of themselves. Others either exist to meet their needs or may as well not exist at all. Those who provide narcissistic supply to the narcissist are treated as if they are part of the narcissist and are expected to live up to those expectations. In the mind of a narcissist there is no boundary between self and other.
Update: Forgot to list sources to part about seven deadly sins of narcissism. I googled it, and chose Wikipedia.
Update 2: So sorry spanky, I could have listed you as an example but It's against the "Guidelines" to single out specific people.
Update 3: The author of the article, Thomas Hotchkiss, also said that narcissists typically display most, and sometimes all of the above traits. There's much good information to be had by googling this subject if interested.
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