I think that the Christians and Jews are taking a wrong advantage of a bad patch on Muslims.
First of all, the word Sharia is a self generated term. It is something that they have given to the opinion of so called scholars and much of their own stupidity which is no where near the Quran (as already pointed out by another answerer). But the unfortunate fact of life is that most Muslims whose religion is limited to the verbal sermons of the local Imam (cleric) of the local mosque, doesn't know that. And continues to think that it is divine law, while it is not.
Second, to address the major issue of your concern i.e. forcing ones belief and forcing laws like apostasy.
For one, Muslims hardly ever forced their beliefs on anyone. Yes as a Christian (blood thirsty mongers) you have been indoctrinated through out your life that Islam is a warrior religion and enforced through sword. The irony is that there are more than 800 million Hindus in India. And they have been ruled by waves upon waves of Muslims for atleast a 1000 years. Most Muslims in India can trace back their ancestory to the Afghans, Central Asians, Iranians and Arabs. Had they used sword to convert the Hindus, hinduism would have been wiped out of the map of this world for good. And the fact is that Muslims today in India are a MINORITY (approx. 250 million, compared to the +800 million Hindus), and not a majority.
Moreover historically, the Jews and Christians lived in the Jerusalem and Muslim lands without any problems. There were a substantial number of Jews living in Jerusalem that were slain by the Christian crusaders when Jerusalem was captured by them. On the other hand, the Muslims allowed the Christians to leave in peace and ALSO permitted them to unarmed peaceful visits to Jerusalem for pilgrimage and other purposes when they retook Jerusalem.
Consequently, I think you have enough blood on your hands to wash first and face the facts of the history to tell the victims back that they are the guilty ones.
Coming to the point of apostasy. The fact is that there is absolutely NO punishment in the Quran for apostasy. Moreover apostasy is applicable ONLY to the relevant religion. We don't expect the Christians to talk in compliance to Islam. How can we do that ?
The problem is that the Muslim world got their independence from the colonial rule just about 40-60 years ago. And they are being ruled by puppet governments. Moreover the majority of Muslims due to their recent independence and continuous turmoils which come through the exploiting west, are quite uneducated.
I remember that once some people objected to Lee kwong wu (Singaporean dictator) as to "you have dictatorship". And the guy who has revolutionized the economy of Singapore responded. "We did not have the long span of time that Europe had. Now that I have put the country on the right course, it is upto them, whatever they want i.e. dictatorship or democracy or any other thing".
Unfortunately this is not the case of Muslims.
You can see the hypocrisy and double standards of the West, by just a few examples;
1- They support the return of Jews and settlement and their right to Israel. Now these Jews are some people who think and claim to have some relation or ancestorial ties with the people who were expelled from that land 2000 years ago.
BUT !!, you just cannot bear the Palestinians WHO have recently been massacred, made an alien in his own homeland, expelled, persecuted, in Israel. I mean the guy has a broken house, and its keys and deeds with him. He can go to the site and show you the devastated village, destroyed mosque, and remains of the buildings where they once lived. But no, that is to be taken off the table. For the west, they are not even humans.
2- You state that Al-Qaeda attacked the WTC / 911. But no one asks the proof / evidence from Bush to produce that. He was given a clean chit and a blind belief on the mere statement that "we have the proof, but it is much too sensitive, to reveal". What are you kidding us. Is it sensitive for the US gov. The most powerful nation on the map at the moment. You mean more than 11 years, more than trillions of dollars gone into the war. The whole Afghanistan captured and hundreds of thousands killed. And you still don't have the morals to show the evidence. wow !! you Christians, have some very high morals !
3- Al-Qaeda was mostly composed of Arabs. So many operations conducted within Afghanistan and Pakistan. But has there been a single operation in Saudi Arabia ? I mean the country from where these supposedly people have been coming. Did the US even have the balls to say a word about that, not to mention to do something about it. Oh no, well Saudi Arabia is an ally. Because the oil comes from there !! :) . Afghans and Pakistanis are meaningless, because they don't have the resources that US / West needs.