I am a mommy of 4..My babies a while are 8,3 1/2,1 1/2 and 1 month. I have got to say that's a lot of work however it may be executed and i dont suppose it's hell in any respect. All of my children have fine bonds being close in age and so they adore there new youngster sister. U have got to show all of them equal love and concentration and u may just to find that your oldest probably a little jealous to start with however it is going to pass as long as u nonetheless show your love to her. Congrats on the new baby to be, It wont be as rough as some might say or as u would see with different mom and dad juggling tots with newborns. My husband additionally works a lot, he works from 10pm-7am and when he gets residence he goes straight to sleep for his so much needed relaxation, then he wakes around 1pm relaxes some, heps me out then has to return to bed at 6pm for work. So keep in mind that i'm the important one who takes care of the children for the duration of the day and night time but it is manageable and it gets less difficult as the times move, principally when little one begins to sleep via the night time. Every little one and ever supply is the equal so u could or would possibly not come to be having a child with colic again however chances are that u prob wont if you want to make it that a lot simpler...Both approach im sure u will do nice..Good good fortune!