I'm 18 and hoping to start my first lesbian relationship with this 21 year old girl. Can i get some advice?

I'll try to make this as very "straight to the point" as i can. So i'm an 18 year old lesbian and have been out since i was 16 but have known since i was 11. I've had multiple crushes but the girls were always straight so nothing worked out. Ive started my first year at college in upstate new... show more I'll try to make this as very "straight to the point" as i can. So i'm an 18 year old lesbian and have been out since i was 16 but have known since i was 11. I've had multiple crushes but the girls were always straight so nothing worked out. Ive started my first year at college in upstate new york and joined my school's Gay Straight Alliance and it has over 80 members. This one girl really stood out to me since the first meeting. I found out that she's a senior and bisexual. And i know she's had a relationship with a girl before. She just dresses like a badass but I know she's really sweet and funny. She has a great personality.

I went to a "gay" party and saw her playing beer pong so i started playing with her and got ma flirt on. She finally caught on and we were flirting a lot by the end of the night. (She rubbed up against me and kinda kissed my neck) So I know she's most likely interested in me. Thing is, she was with a girl who's a sophomore at the party and i heard they had a "thing" and it appeared that way, though they werent making out or anything, they were just very attached.

So me and this girl had our first convo over facebook the next morning which i initiated and it was kinda steamy haha. We have plans to rematch in beer pong, but now the "loser has to do whatever the winner wants". Though im hoping to have a coffee meetup with her before this all goes down, cause theres no way im losing my V-card if im not in a relationship with the person. (I've only kissed a girl btw, nothin else. Kind of a personal choice)

The past few days we've been on break from school, so i was home and posted two statuses on facebook of song lyrics. One was from chasing cars by snow patrol and the other All you wanted by Michelle Branch, so they were both about love and wanting to start something with that special person. And she liked both of them (she hasnt liked anything on my facebook before).

I'd love to be in a relationship with her even though she is the bad girl type and has a little bad reputation. How can i get the ball rolling and is there anything i should look out for? Im definitely gonna ask her about this girl she supposedly has a "thing" with if we do have that coffee meet up. Anything else we should discuss? We havent texted or messaged each other for a week. I'm waiting for her to initiate something cause I don't want to appear desperate. Plus, im seeing her thing wednesday at the GSA meeting, so I plan on saying hi to her at the beginning and seeing if she looks at me or whatever when we're in the group circle. Any tips on getting a relationship to start would be great, thanks :)
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