10 points! Should I talk to him again or let it go?

A few weeks ago I got a shady text from my ex-boyfriend, whom I've remained friends with for the last year and a half (we broke up in August 2010). I asked him if he was in town (he lives 45 minutes away) and if he wanted to go grab a drink. He said that he wasn't and that he didn't want to spend any more time or money on our "fake dates." (I guess he thinks we flirt even though I am in a serious relationship with someone else.)

It was surprising because even though we weren't especially close as friends, he told me to think of him as a friend first and an ex second. So what gives about his new change of heart? What do I do now? Just let it go and not talk to him? I haven't talked to him since he said that.

He may be hurt because whenever I'm in his hometown and we go out, I crash on his living room couch if I've been drinking but won't hook up/date him now that I'm in a relationship. (My boyfriend knows that I've stayed there.)

This ex and I never got serious.

2 Answers

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I would just let it go. If he wants to talk or do something with you, let him be the one to initiate.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Let life go its course you should just become associates than friends cause it sounds like you still have feelings though unless you really care about him then talk but other than that no

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