How to fix "connection lost cannot connect to server" error on minecraft?

I have been trying to connect to my friends minecraft server for 2 Days now and every time I try to connect it gives me the same error... "connection lost" can someone please tell me what I can do"..
Update: The other error it gives me is "Internal exception: java.net.SocketExeption: connection reset"
Or
"End of stream"
PLEASE HELP!!!
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