OK. The answers to this are so ridiculous, and childish. Everybody and their mother knows Kurt committed suicide. It was ruled a suicide by the coroner, no foul play found by police. In fact Courtney wasn't even in the same STATE let alone house. He was supposed to be in rehab in Malibu, checked out AMA, or skipped out without anyone realizing, went home to a secluded area where no one would interrupt him, or walk in and try to stop him, got high and shot himself. Anyone that knows ANYTHING about KC knows he had attempted suicide in Rome, a intentional drug OD using Rohypnol. His manager at the time had it covered up as something like, pneumonia or something to the effect, I can't remember now. I was like 14. Also, he was obsessed with guns( listen to his lyrics, read his journals), never felt good enough, didn't like fame, and had extreme stomach/ gastrointestinal issues, which is one reason he said he needed to self- medicate with heroin. But anybody who has been a heroin addict knows you can find a list a MILE long as to why you cannot quit/ need heroin. He never felt he would be a good father to his daughter. These are not my assumptions, these are answers from living through that time, his journals, his music, interviews, etc etc. Courtney Love did NOT kill Kurt Cobain. People have been saying that since the beginning, just like they did about Yoko Ono, Nancy Spungen, or any other woman connected to a male rock star who dies. It's because people hate her, jealous that Kurt loved her, jealous she is a strong, talented woman. They hate her because she was close to Kurt, and couldn't save him in the end. You can't save anybody who is hellbent on ending their life. I know that all to well from personal experience too. I however, am not sure why she hates Dave Grohl so much. I do know that some of it has to do with publishing rights to Nirvana/Kurt's estate, Krist and Dave didn't think that she should be involved, but she was executrix of his estate until Frances was 18, and unfortunately when money is involved things get yucky between friends/acquaintances (And don't you haters say she wanted Kurt for his money. 1. She had a trust fund she lived off of for a LOOOOONG time, 2. She had already had critical acclaim with Hole's first release, which was written and recorded before she met Kurt. Plus she had other bands i.e.Sugar Babylon, Pagan Babies, and a very brief stint with Faith No More,that didn't give her A LOT of revenue, but some. 3. She had started doing movies in the 80's i.e. Sid and Nancy, Straight To Hell.) But back to the point of Dave Grohl, once on Howard Stern she said Kurt HATED him( personal things none of us will ever know) and I believe there is something in his journals about KC and DG fighting a lot. KC actually almost got Patty Schemel (Hole's 2nd drummer, started on LTT) to play drums. But after Kurt died he started writing songs about hating CLC( 'Stacked Actress' or Actresses, not sure), and everybody knows Foo Fighter's main hit song 'Hero' is about KC. Basically I think it boils down to publishing rights, royalties, etc from Nirvana that she was fighting for FRANCES to get when she was 18, not her. And I don't think DG wanted her to have anything to do with the legacy of KC. Just bad blood that got worse after a horrible tragedy. The two of them, CLC and DG, keep going back and forth( she just accused him of hitting on Frances via a Twitter message, then retracted and apologized to Frances). I don't think any of us will know the whole story, nor should we because we're just people who didn't know them, or the situations they were in, or why they made the choices they did. Let Kurt rest in peace guys. Stop with the BULLSHIT that she killed him. Didn't happen. Everyone knows it didn't happen. It's just a stupid rumour started by people who were hurt and mad that Kurt died, and were looking for someone to blame, and CLC was the easiest target. Pretty soon you guys are going to start seeing him like people see Elvis or Tupac. Hahaha. Yes there are movies which spin things to make it/her look suspicious, but footage can be edited and pieced together and the person making the movie can turn it into anything they want. Jesus that was long. Sorry. Hope that helps.
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