Think about what attracts you to someone.....that works the other way around too. Some people go for looks and some don't. Do you think looks are the most important thing in a girl? If so, then you may find your life full of fairly shallow people. Try to make a list of the things you consider important in a girl, make it in order of importance to you...lots of girls will have the same list for things they want in a boy. Consider looks, a sense of humour, brains, a smiley face and so on. And remember, you are only 16. Go out with as many people as you can and try out lots and lots of different girls. You'll know when you've found the right one and you'll know when you've found one who likes you. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder....just look around and see all the different pairs of people there are...and smile.