關於離婚!!!請教好心人士

小女子今年33,同老公結婚就來3年.發現他有外遇.之前還對我動手.公司同事都有見到.皮膚比佢打到又紅又黑.我好想報警控制佢.但,佢係公務員.當時佢又控制我不比我打999.之後都無報到.我衰心軟.一次又一次吟算數,令到佢越來越放肆.喜歡打就打你.就X女呀.吹呀.他說話超難听.我現有10萬積蓄,(現在住緊宿舍),嘈過好多次.相信周圍人都知.就係驚無地方住.我認認...跟住仲要逼我同房.(是無感情) 宿舍得我2個住.求救無門.現在我有左bb,每月就比2000我要負責屋企的所有開支,今日BB12周了.再發現他1月6號同個女人去歐洲..我就是電話,同Whats證實.我亦分別打左好多好多個電話比他們.我老公死不會听.那女子終於認不到有听一次了.還鬧我有病.X我老母.她認我老公係佢度.叫我老公出聲但他無出聲.做人第三者做到吟,咩道理.天理何在.我知他們10/6號返香港.我好想請私家偵探查他.我認受唔到了.有左已然好辛苦,又嘔晚晚去洗手間.好難瞓得著.我又不想落左佢.一條人命.我決定生.我經濟獨立,如果要生供書教養.我想要管養權.膽養費,照顧bb用途,他份量有26000,我得一萬多啲,照顧自己無問題.多左個小朋友.又要住.都是問題之一.好煩好煩...

希望好心人提點.比意見.我懷疑自己有憂鬱證了.晚晚失眠.我家人都不在香港.無人支持.慘!!! 我相信還是有好多好心人.多謝你听我哭訴.

Update:

昨天我見了2個偵探舍.好貴呀.就係一日要10000蚊.而且我都不敢肯定佢有冇講大話呃我邊日返.之後再跟一日(8個鐘)計又要5000,捉奸在床我都明白好難.於是做無把握的事情.導不如比心機做自己可把握的事.所以我放棄了.晒埋啲錢.不如留返個錢為我同bb將來打算.我會泠靜去面對.向好個方面諗.多謝以下關心答覆的朋友.我會逃出這圈圈.昨天開始我無再打電話,Whats比狗男女了.多謝各位!

Update 2:

TQ!

Thank you for giving me the information & thank you for your reply.

(那女人發晒癲吟鬧我.成個爛口婆.好多廣東粗口.我不想教精佢.我無再理會佢.不想與佢同流合污.影衰我.至今日止.我老公都是玩失蹤.我無再打電話比佢地了.)

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Sorry about what has happened.

    In this case, it seems that divorce by adultery will be unavoidable.

    However, the detail of the divorce will be the key in this case.

    Unfortunately, since you are living in a government quarter that is exclusively for civil servants, you will have to move eventually.

    No doubt that he is a unfit husband (and father), but I urge you not to press any criminal charges against him for domestic violence (Custody and child support, aka money, is the key for not doing that).

    As soon as you can demonstrate that you are subject to domestic violence, child custody for your future child will definitely belong to you, providing you are fit to be a parent.

    Regardless your capacity of living, you will have to request for alimony because if you don't request it, you will waive your future rights for it as well.

    And the most important is your emotion. It is important to maintain your mental health (as the way in deciding custody). So if you can, go back to your own family and seek relief.

  • 9 years ago

    首先你要留意返, 離婚有好多嘢要攪, 1. 住屋問題, 租金, 水電煤,管理費等. 你一個月一萬多D, 未必夠, 其次係唔好諗住膽養費, 就算個官判咗要俾, 佢都唔一定會俾你, 你都無法.

    反而我覺得你當時應該先報警, 因為如果報咗, 有咩事都有人幫手. 佢咁樣, 應該同佢分身家, 搵私家偵探搵查佢哋, 有証據先, 之後攬離婚, 等官判, 如果BB未出世, 一定跟你.

    小心身體, 你現時會好影響BB大個.

  • 9 years ago

    你老公係咪做警察架? 其實都唔緊要, 我知寧教人打仔,莫教人分妻.但其實呢D問題香港有好多,你既有自己的工作,而且人工已算不少,考慮離婚是保護你自己的一個方法,你又唔忍心報警,如果唔係,佢打你可能會給革職,咩前途都冇晒,但我覺得佢係攞黎囉.其實如果你要離婚,佢連宿舍都冇得住啦.

    至於個BB,你生下來要照顧就要攞綜援了,人工又不夠,又冇時間照顧,如果你唔想落咗佢,同社署說吓,可以生下送比人.給自己一個重生的机會,你才33,重有大把日子,勿放棄你將來的好日子.

    祝你好運

    Source(s): 自己
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