Is this considered cheating?

I am living with someone have 1 child and one on the way with, and lately we have been on a rocky road i haven't been giving him attention as in ie: sex, sexy pics , sweet stuff in general...but i haven't gotten a compliment in almost a year he hates texting or talking to me on the phone, he isn't sweet...So yesterday i find out that he has been sending and receiving pictures and videos of himself and the a girl of herself fingering herself etc etc, and he says there just pics and that he didn't cheat or meet up with her, that he did it cuz i gave him no attention and he hasn't apologized yet either cuz i complained too much and he needs time to think........is this cheating????

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  • 9 years ago
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    is the child you currently have with him hes ? and ofcourse theres another baby on the way , and hes too , right ? technically hes not cheating but it could lead to this and probably will . if theyre exchanging nice porn photos of themselves , whats to stop them meeting and agreeing to complete and " seal the deal " as it were ?

    the right word is " consumate " the relationship . start collecting or making copies of things or stuff he does with her and consult a family lawyer for free . its not good that you aint giving him none of youre sweeteness , but hes got a child with you and another on the way .

    he cant be this irresponsible to continue trying to make babies with both you and her , and when he gets none of what he wants , he simply seeks some more else where . does he know about child support if the kids are hes ? a certain % of hes paycheque goes toward maintaining those kids . kids cant be punished simply coz their dad isnt getting some sweetness at home !

    infact he should be extra nice to you for giving him those kids and for carrying them for him !

  • 9 years ago

    If you were married, it would be a breach of the marriage promise. Since you are just roommates, we don't know what promises you have made to each other. It may or may not be cheating.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    well if its not, then it wont be long before it happens

  • 9 years ago

    Um yes, he is in fact a D-bag. Kick him to the curb bc I'm sure you know the answer better than anyone on yahoo answers :-/ good luck hun

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  • Tony
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    9 years ago

    Whats considered cheating is up to you? Are you ok with this? If not then you should tell him that what ever he thinks it is you are not ok with it. If you are ok with it well who cares what anybody else thinks.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    if this is not, what can be called cheating?

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Technically he hasn't.

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