Is this being a rat/snitch?

I generally don't like to be in people business so sometimes I would see something but keep it from someone who it may harm cause I'm not up for drama.

Recently my friend (a boy) cheated on his girlfriend who is also a good friend of mine. Should I tell her or is that being a rat. If I tell her she would obviously tell him I told her and that would ruin my friendship with him.

So would I be considered a rat of I tell her?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Well it's up to you. What would be the implications? If you were my friend I would want to know. However, it may look as if you are jealous and trying to break them up so be aware.

  • 4 years ago

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  • 9 years ago

    bro's before hoes... hahaha

    actually forget about that idiotic fallacy. You should what you think is best, it all comes down to who you care more about? Unless you are really close to the girl then you shouldn't tell her because it is never good to get into other peoples business

  • 9 years ago

    If you're really good with the girl,it's okay to tell her but be careful and ask to conduct her own investigation on her boyfriend .tell her that the reason you do this is to do all you can help as a good friend.dont ask to confront the guy as soon as you tell her,help her to think and plan what to do next but be careful and genuine about your intentions as she might misunderstood.if you're really uncertain of what approach to take,I would suggest that you do nothing,unfortunately because she either won't listen to you and deny everything you said or she trusted you and go straight ahead to confront the guy,ruining your friendship at the same time.

    Be careful,wise and judgemental.

    Good luck.

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  • 9 years ago

    Tough situation there!

    Cheating is a horrible thing, but I don't like being a snitch ... But telling her is the best thing it's just your mate will be even more hurt if she knew you knew what was going on and didn't tell her... Just tell her to not tell him that you said what was going on. Tell her to say she found out from 'someone'. Be there for your friend she will feel really hurt in this because of her boyfriends actions... It's best she knows cause if he carries on and she loves him that's worse... Put yourself in her shoes, would you like your best friend to know your boyfriend is cheating on you but she didn't tell you? :))) hope I helped

  • 9 years ago

    yeah, you guys should talk about it after all what are friends for? except baning each other :P

  • 9 years ago

    Tell her but tell her not to say you told her

  • 9 years ago

    I think you should definately tell her. Imagine once she finds out that you knew all along and you didnt tell her...

  • 9 years ago

    Don't say anything just imagine the **** you'll go through

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