My girlfriend misunderstood what i meant to say. I mentioned an actress and now she's gone bezerk on me..?

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You don't really have to see it though.

Before i start, we had a little conversation about 'fantasy' hook ups or whatever. We were only pretending, and i believe she still think it's serious.

I'll try to quote our conversation:

Her: "I know why you wanna watch the avengers."

Me: "Ah, why do I?

Her: "Scarlett."

Me: "No way, i want to watch for the hulk and captain america."

Her: "Yeah right."

Me: "But i don't even want to watch it for her, it's an action movie.."


Me: "Why are you mentioning her? I don't even love her, we were pretending that day. And it's an action movie, i want to watch the action."

Her: "You fancy her."

Me: "im not a perv. I don't, i said that name because you asked me to, and i didn't know who else to choose. I like ellen page better (THIS is where i technically screwed up in innocence). Because she seems decent, scarlett doesn't."

Her: "gtfo you know. You're like everyone else. Go fap over her pic."

Me: "if i said i didn't like scarlett, would you believe me? Ellen page is a brilliant actor, i like her acting, what's wrong with that?"

Her: "i don't want you."

Me: "You chose ian somerhaulder, you commented on his body, did i get jealous or wanted to dump you?"

Her: "You just confirmed what i thought. Because i was kidding, you didn't. And you added some ellen to your list, dare even telling me."

Me: "Ellen is an actor, good lord! Why would i love some Ellen who i dont even know? I don't base my love on looks, i like her acting that's all. And if you love me, cant you trust me?"

Her: "i don't feel like talking to you right now sorry." (then leaves me)

I sent her over a dozen texts, voice mails etc. She's acting like i don't even love her, after all the things i did for her. Any other fake guy would have taken this opportunity and left her.

We've fought countless times, i stood by her side, i NEVER left her, or never did anything to deliberately hurt her. And she still thinks that i'm some random fake piece of ****?

Can anyone help me out on how to actually convince her?

To be quite honest. When she shouted out scarletts name, i felt this was going to turn into a 'dumping' type situation. Ellen page, being a seemingly decent character, i mentioned her so she would feel like i don't like the stereotypical 'sluttly scarlett' and that i would prefer a decent person over her.

I CAN'T explain myself, honestly, it's a total misunderstanding! It hurts the heck out of me to know we're doing this over a misunderstanding!

4 Answers

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    She's flippin crazy man! Dump her! She is psycho with a capital B!

    Source(s): SWAG
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  • Bill
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    too bad you already sent out all those little apology texts and everything. there was no need for you to do that. you can't help it if she's extremely insecure. it's not your job to go around wiping her butt all the time when she gets upset. that's her problem not yours. ideally, you would have called her out and told her to calm down and quit inventing problems.

    it's like you're being too nice about it. and she's being overly crazy about it. so in a way, you both are in the wrong. don't you think all this will blow over? or not? she's that crazy huh? she may have like a hormonal imbalance or something that prevents her from being cool.

    i guess if she treats you like shlt, then you should start acting like shlt. if she gets this upset over nothing, how would she like it if you really gave her something to be upset about? i guess you love her, but that's not always a healthy reason to stay together.

    also, it wan't a misunderstanding. this was something way different. this was her taking it upon herself to create drama and invent a problem that was not already there. that's crazy people's behavior. not a misunderstanding.

    best wishes... it must be fun

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  • 8 years ago

    Hey, dude. It's obviously not your fault. Just i think she get jealous when you mention other girl's name infront of her. Next time, just mention her name. Plus, she's over reacting n does she tries to find an excuse for break ups?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    It was not your fault, but sometimes we have to do that we dont want...So make her understand that you are innocent

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