Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 9 years ago

How do I keep both of us sane and healthy?

I am about to graduate college and I still feel like I'm in high school. I try to hang out with people but if I go out without permission from my mom, then she gets mad and her blood pressure increases. Basically, when I try to do anything to make myself more independent and/or happy, her blood pressure goes up and she gets a headache. She even takes meds for her blood pressure now. So if I am to keep her healthy, I have to live according to her laws and rules. I don't want to rebell and then she gets an aneurism. How do we both keep our sanity and reduce the risk of hart problems and strokes?

Update:

@never cry Is there a 3rd option?

1 Answer

Relevance
  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You have 2 choices, Lie to her and don't let her know what you have been doing, or just be honest with her and say you need your freedom and see how that goes.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.