I`m a Christian wife Married to a Muslim Husband (Until when must i suffer just to have a Family)?
He worked for his car loan & be a husband Father. I was the one paying for our Food,Clothing, everything except home because he wanted to live in my family home which it would be free.Until the time came when he lost his job then I tried to pay for him his car loan until the time came I cant cause my savings has soon to become zero must we use the money for our basic needs.
Then he made Etikaff in the mosque meaning prayer 10 days no going out. Months has passed until we didn`t pay for his car loan. He didn’t complain & accepted our hard life. So, i think he changed. Until we had the chance to buy & sell land but it was 1year payment not cash so we paid his car loan again & had money for our life.
From the start of our marriage till now he never gave me anything. I waited the time if he would have his own hard earned money he would give me even a ring( wedding ring ). When he had the chance to have money I patiently waited that he would change & think about us his family until the time came my 2nd child was soon to be born. What he did he just continued to pay for his car loan. In able not to loose his car.
Then, I prayed to God when will he change? God,if he will not pls make me ready & not cry.When he sit down at home he would complain where is the work I told him isn`t it our money to come is still dated after 4months we must wait God gave it to us to be able to think of what to do when it come. He started to go out with friends in the mosque until 1 day we decided to sell Halal foods he wanted to start it big. I told him we can start small. He don’t want. Then I told him lets wait when our checks come we will. Then he met new friend same as his nationality & religion he gave our idea & source, concept to him & he his friend did it. I got angry i told him why you gave him that idea & all worst even accompanied him everyday just to have all the things needed to start it. He said I`m Satan. Allah made me to know him to give this idea. He will not stop us if we do it too. I was so hurt & sad because it was not only his idea its ours for our family to have regular income. Then, he started making problems. When he is at home his face is sad,bored. But when he talk with his friend in the phone he laugh & he is happy. I told him why he is doing that. He said whats your problem. I told him it seems you are not happy at home. I talked to him pls. Every Sunday make it free for me. It,s my day Ill go to church & try to do window shopping. He agreed but 3 weeks ago he sent me mesg. My friend is coming. So, I said I must go home & check the child when i come home i saw our 3months