I disagree with everyone here. Don't make the first move, unless you are making the first move in terms of FRIENDSHIP! If you want a romantic relationship, then he needs to come after you. Forget this "Oh what if the guy is shy" crap. If he is truly digging you, sooner or later, he's going to get tired of being so shy, and he will MAN UP and ask you out.
You're going nuts? Well, how about this my dear, STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM!
Omg, how do I stop thinking about a guy I'm totally infatuated with?
Well, it won't be easy, and it will require a lot of effort, but it's totally worth it.
1) Everytime he pops into your mind, you must choose to think about something else. It will be hard, and you might have to do this several hundred times, but then it gets easier, and you won't be thinking about him at all.
2) Make yourself busy. Sometimes when we are idle, we use that time to think about people we like. But it's a time waster. Why? Well answer me this. With all the time that you've thought about him, what has been accomplished? Has he made a move? Has he shown any interest in you? Has it helped the situation at all? The chances are it has not. Therefore, you're wasting your time thinking about him.
3) There's nothing wrong with being old fashioned :)
American society will try to make you feel bad, but if you have convictions, STICK TO THEM.
Have a wonderful day :)
· 7 years ago