Should I be embarrassed to be a 38 year old virgin male ?

I am a 38 year old virgin due to shyness and low self esteem. Lots of women tell me I am handsome and try to flirt with me but I do not flirt back because my virginity is embarrassing me. I feel like I am not good enough to flirt with or date a woman because of it. I've never had a girlfriend in my life. Should... show more I am a 38 year old virgin due to shyness and low self esteem. Lots of women tell me I am handsome and try to flirt with me but I do not flirt back because my virginity is embarrassing me. I feel like I am not good enough to flirt with or date a woman because of it. I've never had a girlfriend in my life. Should all this embarrass me?
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