My girlfriend doesn't really tell anyone we are together she tells them I'm her roommate. She's only told one person at her job that she is dating a woman. Should I be concerned?
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
I'm kinda in the same boat with my girlfriend but I'm the one who doesn't really tell other people about us. I understand that it can be concerning but in no way am I sneaking behind my girlfriends back. I mostly just tell people that I am dating someone. I guess where I live I just don't like being looked at funny when I tell people that I have a girlfriend. I tell some people but only good friends. I guess your girlfriend might be feeling the same way. As long as she only has eyes on you I don't think you should be concerned.
- reme_1Lv 79 years ago
She is still in the closet.
At her job, it might not be 'job safe" to come out at this time.
We all need to come out when we are really ready.
You can encourage her but don't push.
Try to get more involved wit the gay community so she will feel the strength of 'gay power".
My best to you both.
- Anonymous9 years ago
no. give her time to be ready to come out :)