How can i fix my hair!? please help!?

i have hard water, so my hair gets damaged everytime i washit, wish is once every other day. my hair is dry, frizzy, coarse and just ugly. i hate it! i want my hair long, too. how can i get it to be silky, shiny, glossy, and smooth and to get it to grow faster!?!?!? please help me!?!?! im hopeless!!!
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