How do I stop getting upset when people mistake me for a girl?

I like wearing girl's clothes but I don't try to be seen as like the opposite gender any more than many girls that crossdress do. Clothes are clothes to me.

Alas people often think of me as a girl when I wear girls clothes. This infuriates me - it makes me feel like I'm being misgendered. It's just a little mistake though; that's what happens when you look androgynous.

How do I get over this?

6 Answers

  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    How about not wearing girls clothes?

    Just a thought.

  • A.J.
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Are you serious? You wear girls clothes and are upset that people think you are a girl? That makes no sense whatsoever.

    Either realize that people are going to think you are a female, or stop wearing their clothes. It really is that simple.

  • 9 years ago

    Try having a sense of humor about it. I get confused for a girl all the time, and I've even had guys say I have a nice butt. When you look at it, if a straight guy confused you for a girl and said you had a cute butt that would be pretty funny. So yeah, just keep a sense of humor about it and all will be right with the world.

    Source(s): personal experience
  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Perhaps if you got a very masculine haircut, or wore a necklace of the male symbol? Or maybe a baseball cap? Or darker colors?

    The only way to stop getting upset I think would to work on building your confidence and not taking it seriously because thier just strangers and they don't know you.

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  • 9 years ago

    Unless you like REALLY feminine this shouldent really happen. But sence it does, you have to expect it. If you wear clothes from the section called " girls" then people may think you are one.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Don't wear girls clothes?

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