How do I get girls to become interested in me?
I am 16 and I want to know how I can become more appealing to attractive girls. All of the girls I find attractive want to only remain friends. I am a very light african american male and everyone thinks I am mixed but am really full black. I am kind of a big guy I am not super fat or anything just big. I just now started wearing glasses and like to wear designs in my hair when I dont grow out my natural curls. I have a chin strap and a mustache and am probably about 5'10 in height. I like to joke around and have fun but am also a sweet and romantic type of guy. I write and read alot mostly music, poetry, and i also write screenplays. I usually am always smiling or laughing at something. I like to talk and am very friendly. I solve a lot of my friends problems and people come to me with all kinds of issues. I dont know what I am doing wrong.
How do I get out of the friend zone? How do I flirt with girls that I like?
I am trying to find this out since I am one of the last few of all my friends that doesnt have a date to sadies and I have liked a lot of girls and am stuck in the friend zone with all of them. What can I do!! Please help.
- BIG DADDY COOLLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
Run your fingers through your hair
Touch them gently on the arm/shoulder
Give them a hug
Complement their clothes
Say, "It seems like forever since I last saw you"
Offer them a blanket or coat if it's cold
Offer to buy them a drink
Lean toward them
Send them a text message
Find them on Myspace or Facebook and add them
Drop something and see if they pick it up
Brush against them "accidentally"
Flutter your eyelashes
If it's a nice day, suggest you go outside to enjoy the sunshine
If it's a cold day, suggest to go get hot chocolate
Tell them something about who you are; a secret hope, a silly fear...
Ask them what shampoo they use
Open the door for them
Carry something heavy for them
Complement them on jewelry they're wearing
Ask what they like to do for fun
Ask questions about their interests
Invite them to go stargazing with you
Send them flowers anonymously
Give them your phone number or email address
Tell them they have beautiful eyes or a beautiful smile
Laugh at their jokes
Tell them, "I bet you can't guess what I'm thinking..." then when they fail, tell them something flirty, like "you look great today", or "We should skip class and go to the beach".
Let them catch you checking them out
Touch yourself, maybe put your hair behind your ear, or adjust your clothing
Whistle at them
Say, "Is it hot in here, or is it just you?"
Bite your lip and look down
Give your full attention to the other person
Make them a CD
Invite them to a movie
Invite them to watch a show or sporting event
Dare them to do something
Be competative -- "I bet I can beat you at racketball"
Brush their hair out of their eyes
Take them for a walk outside, and sit down in the grass.
If you're sitting outside, offer to help her up.
Let him notice you smelling him
Tell her she smells great
Ask them how their day was.
Ask them if they're doing anything fun this weekend.
Invite them to go with you and your friends someplace.
Teach them how to do something
Tell them you were thinking of them the other day.
Lick your lips.
Mirror their body language; if they talk slowly, talk slower; if they're leaning forward, lean forward toward them, too.
Call them for no reason other than to say, "Hello".
Suggest a book or movie you think they'd really like; they'll be impressed you are tuned into their tastes and are thinking of them.
Stand up straight and don't slouch
Say their name often
Nod when they speak
Ask them their opinion on something in the news.
Leave a note someplace for them to find it
Teach them a few dance moves
Ask them what their favorite dessert is.
Tell them you had a dream with them in it.
Attend an event that they are in or want to go to.
Offer them something you're eating -- gum or a piece of candy.
Tell them you want their advice or input on an issue.
Ask them what they would think if you asked them out.
Make sure to tell them "good luck" if they are going someplace or doing something important-- taking a test, interviewing for a job, etc.
Use a corny pickupline to make them laugh.
Win them a prize.
If they ask you a question, say, "Maybe I'll tell you... if you'll let me buy you lunch."
If they looks sad, try to cheer them up.
Ask if they need any help with what they're doing
Hold their hand
Invite them over for a candlelight dinner
Ask them what they are thinking, right now
Ask them to sit next to you
Tell them a secret
Play a game with them
Pay attention to their body language
Make up a riddle for them to solve, with the prize being a date with you, a kiss, etc.
Tell them a joke
Cook something for them (cookies, or even a dinner).
Dedicate a song to them on the radio
Tell them, "I think I want to flirt with you"
Invite them to go bike riding with you
Say it's cold, and suggest you should scoot closer to avoid hypothermia
Ask them what they want in a guy/girl
Use sexually suggestive language in a context with something they're interested in (like, "So if you're into astronomy, you must have no problem staying up all night long")
Tell them you enjoy their company
Ask lightly, "Are you flirting with me?"
Ask them what their name means; if they don't know, you can look it up
- jackquesLv 43 years ago
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