Not to be politically incorrect here, but the same could be said about anybody. I'm just a good ol' boy, and not trying to be racist here, but I've beard the same kinds of questions about blacks, latinos, whites, asians, muslims, jews, politicians, the media, poor people, and rich people. I think you need to focus on the individuals who are doing what you described and not blame it on "american women". I don't know what gender, ethnic, social backrgound, or religoius beliefs you share, but why not ask a question like, "Why did people of my culture destroy America?" This is only my opinion, but I think It's the negative stereotypes people have that are destroying America, and the rest of the world for that matter.