Why does everyone say "you'll find love when you stop looking for it"?

Does it really happen?

What are your stories? (If you've found love when you least expected it--if you want to tell--you don't have to tell if you don't want to~)

How do you stop looking for love?
Update: I focus on myself, and I get out of the house. (I have many hobbies, friends, but I'm just wondering why people say this.) I'm not desperate or anything~just wondering.
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