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Which guy should i pick ?

im only asking because ive never been in this situation before. I like a guy but i'm trying not to like him....why? because he's a LOT older than me, sometimes i don't like him, im a naive completely straight 16 year old and he is a very experienced bi-sexual man technically. but i cant help liking him...ive tried telling myself i don't but i do. Another guy likes me and i think i like him and he's a better choice for a boyfriend than the first guy..why? he's closer to my age, he is completely straight, i fancy him more than the first guy and i'd be more comfortable with him. Which should i choose?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    How much older? See which one you have more in common with and who you are more attracted to and I'm not trying to be mean, but I don't think I'm one to say which guy you should date.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You have just said negative things about the 1st guy so the second 1 u would seem to be happier with plus your only young. Go with some1 your own age this other guy could leave you for a man how wud that make u feel gutted lol and u will end up regretting things

  • 9 years ago

    Second guy sounds like the better choice to me. You said about the 1st guy... 'sometimes i don't like him...' and for the second guy you said '...i'd be more comfortable with him...' so i think you should go with the second one! :) Hope this helps!

    Btw could you take a look at this if you have time. U don't have to tho....it's long and confusing and i wouldn't blame you. Anything besides' you should go talk to him' would be much appreciated. If it were that easy i would have been able to figure it out long ago. thnkx!!

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atevd...

    Source(s): 16 yr old straight girl as well :) Putting myself in your place, i'd go with the latter choice...it's safer and more comfortable than with a bi and a lot older :/
  • 4 years ago

    i does not try this to my female!! If i think of the "she is the single", then my actual acquaintances might understand and that i may well be waiting to freely talk approximately her. on an identical time, i does not talk approximately her continuously. I ought to offer different hobbies in my existence. i does not desire to disrespect my female or my acquaintances, so i might discover that stability.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Of course the second one, you have said you feel more comfortable with him, it's a so key reason, so just hear your heart

  • 9 years ago

    Definitely the 2nd guy who makes you more comfy!

  • 9 years ago

    ew pick the second guy. the first one might have aids

  • 9 years ago

    You should obviously always choose who is better for you and who you are more comforatable with.

  • 9 years ago

    Seriously? you have to ask this question?

    Which one would you want your kids to be raised by ;) maybe that will help!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    the one closer to ur age !

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