Dude I'm gonna lay it out to you. He basically told you that if you aren't willing to do it on your freaking own, then how can he depend on you to do it on your freakin own if you got signed up. Sound familiar, Mr.?..
I know it does and what you need is a kick in the butt. You need to study, ask for a tutor to help you on the mental stuff. You also need to start working out like you can rip through anything, including long runs (5-10 miles, whatever you can handle), weights-hit them like you own the whole set. Then and only then do you approach the military. Understand Mr.
Failure is not an option.
Laura, (classified, but always looking)