Calm down lovey!! theres nothing wrong with you :)
I know at the age of 14 you feel really grown up, (and i know ur still not going to believe me, cos every1 else has probably said it) but ur still young!!
Im almost 18 now, and thought i knew it all at 14, which makes you want to act like an adult.
so obviously this leads to boys and boyfriends etc. (which is totally fine)
But dont beat urself up if you havn't kissed a boy. There's nothing "wrong" with you.
Just enjoy life.
(this is going to sound really cheesey) but you don't need a boyfriend to enjoy life.
Im not saying it isn't nice to have a boyfriend, but dont let your WHOLE happiness depend on whether you have a boyfriend.
so in conclusion :P
No you're not wierd, and there's nothing wrong with you.
Plenty of people have their first kiss WAYY after 14.
Cheer up missy :)