Not be shy in a relationship?

There's this girl at my school who I've known for a few months. I'm pretty outgoing regularly when talking to girls, but for some reason I'm kinda shy and awkward when I'm dating someone, and my friends kinda brought it up with me. I feel like "Should I hold her hand?" when I'm with her, or "How should I act" when we're in a group. I really want to ask her out, but I feel like I'll blow it by acting shy. Any advice on how to overcome this?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Don't over-think it! :) It's completely normal to feel a bit out-of-step and shy when you're near/around your crush. Leave her subtle hints that you like her. Like, maybe grab her hand or wrap an arm around her waist or shoulder. The more you talk to her, the less awkward you should feel around her.

    Hope this helped :)

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