Please answer..is this a rebound?

Me and my boyfriend we're together for a year. I really loved him more than anything and I know he truly loved me too. He told me he's been in love with me for a long time and he said I was perfect for him. He said I was the best thing in his life and he was planning on marrying me in the future. Once I got outta high school, we we're going to move in together. Well as all relationships, we had our ups and downs. It seemed like we we're always fighting, but I tried working on it. It seemed like he just gave up. When he broke up with me, he told me he couldn't do this anymore. As soon as we broke up, he started talking to another girl and I'm pretty sure he's dating her now. My friend said this is a rebound and it won't last if he really loves me, which I know he does. When I found out about the girl, I confronted him about it and he admitted to me, he was kinda talking to her. He told me he really loves me and cares and always will for me but he can't do this right now and he seemed really torn about it. I asked him if he cared about this new girl and he said idk yet, but it's nice to not fight and get into arguments for once. I'm so hurt. I can't eat, I can't sleep, he's on my mind 24/7 and I feel he forgot about me. He's spending alot of time with this new girl too, but he's still inlove with me. What do I do??

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    If he really loves you, he always will. One thing you need to remember is that even if your in love it doesnt mean its right. Two people can love one another soo much but its just not the right time or it just doesnt work out and they both end up marrying someone else. If he loves you he will never forget about you! In the mean time, try and distract yourself and as hard as it may seem attempt to move on. If you are meant to be together you will be. Maybe not now but definitely in the future. Keep your chin up! :)

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