How to tell if a girl is flirting with you?

If you're a girl, how can you tell if another girl is flirting with you? What are the signs? Especially if she isn't exactly "open" about her sexuality?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    If a girl initiates the conversation, this is a major sign that she is into you. However, if you two are good friends, this could simply be friendly.

    If a girl comes and sits down, look at the position of her feet, this will give away what she is focusing on. Disregard if she is pointing in different directions. Note this does not always mean something

    If she is talking slowly, or abnormally fast, its a sign that she is really nervous, which is good (for you, not for her).

    She will definitely smile a lot when you are there.

    If a girl says "awwww" after you do something, it is also a sign that she is trying to flirt with you. She may do this after you cough, trip, or say something cute.

    If she seems shy or is having some slurred speech or is saying "Um" or "Hm" or it seems like she needs to think about simple sentences longer than she should be, it also tells you she's nervous.

    Other examples of this are if she starts walking differently, or if she starts fidgeting with things around her, like fixing clothes, or playing with her cell phone or anything within reach.

    She might make up a rather odd excuse just to talk to you, which might give you a chuckle if you recognize it. If she is feeling bold, she'll enter into your space by starting a random conversation.

    If a girl likes you, she'll go really quiet when you approach her when she has her friends with her. She might feel awkward talking to her friends with you listening. This might reveal she is shy, another good way to tell if she is into you.

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