How do I work on feeling genuine empathy towards women whose boyfriends cheat on them?
As a guy, I have always had to take the initiative to approach, come up with better talk than the last 10 guys, make her laugh, and flirt better than the last 10 guys. No such effort required on her part, just sit there and pick the best out of those guys. The rest of them, just tell them something like "i have to go to the bathroom" or "i'll be right back". I will empathize with a guy whose girlfriend cheated on him because I think it's easier for women to cheat. Any insight would be appreciated.
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
The empathy should come naturally because you know that if someone cheated on you it would hurt. It shouldn't matter if it was easy for that person to find a partner or not.