Ashamed 38 year old male virgin?

I am a 38 year old virgin and a male. It really bothers me that I am a virgin, I want to lose it but I am afraid that no woman would want to take my virginity because I am middle aged, plus I do not even feel worthy enough to have sex with a woman now that I am 38. I feel like a woman could do better than me and... show more I am a 38 year old virgin and a male. It really bothers me that I am a virgin, I want to lose it but I am afraid that no woman would want to take my virginity because I am middle aged, plus I do not even feel worthy enough to have sex with a woman now that I am 38. I feel like a woman could do better than me and find a man with lots of experience. Since I am 38, even if I did start having sex, I would never catch up to all the men and women out there with years of experience. I really feel left out. Keep in mind that I never had a girlfriend in my life and I do have a high sex drive. What would you people do in my position?
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