So, the guy wants graphic nude pics of you.
- Are you overreacting? No.
- Was it acceptable? No.
- Do all guys do that? No.
- Was it disrespectful? Absolutely yes.
- Did he break your trust? Yes.
What should you do? Drop to you knees... and thank God that you found out so quickly the guy is a selfish pig who only thinks about you from the neck down.
In other words... he doesn't respect you, your body, your heart, your soul, your feelings, your values, your history, your family, your dreams, your tears, your fears, or your future.
The guy should be avoided, because he's a wolf. Beware of his next move. He may decide to put on sheep's clothing, apologize, start acting polite, start dating you, and try to win back your trust... but he'll still be a wolf underneath.
The guy was actually a fool. By stating his objectives immediately and so rudely, his core values of selfishness and disrespect are shining clearly through.
Just imagine for a moment the damage he would have inflicted on your tender heart if he had been a bit more patient, acted like a gentleman, taken you on a few dates, whispered sweet lies into your ear, and won your trust. You probably would have been much more open, vulnerable, and excited about his sexual advances. You're actually extremely lucky that he immediately started acting like a wolf.
So, why can the guy get away with acting like a wolf?
- Because there are female fools who don't mind dating a wolf.
- Because there are female fools who do not mind having their bodies used.
The guy doesn't love you... nor even care about you. If he did, then he wouldn't be suggesting that you send nude pics to satisfy his own selfish desires (and he would probably forward the pics to all of his buddies).
He isn't your friend, and he never will be. Friends don't disrespect friends .
How can you keep your heart from getting trampled? Keep your panties on until you get married. That'll eliminate 99% of the creeps, losers, and players... which will make your life much happier and simpler in the long run. You'll also be protected against pregnancy, STD's, and excessive heartache.
In closing... don't make too many stupid decisions, don't drink too much booze or take any drugs, don't have friends who drink heavily or take drugs, listen to your Mom and Dad, read the Bible (the Gospel of John is a good place to start), and then everything will turn out fine.
Those are a few things for you to think about, LG.
Repetitive Cylindrical Logic
Link to some good dating advice for young ladies posted on Y!A -
Link to Y!A advice regarding how to spot and avoid jerks & players -
Link to some good virginity advice for young ladies posted on Y!A (in support of saving sex for the wedding night):
· 8 years ago