I know it's not funny and your frustrated but I'm sorry to say your question has made me laugh a little. Thanks, it's not often you get a laugh on here.
Anyway, back to helping you with your question.
In this hobby you will need lots of patients so take a seat and have a cup of coffee/tea, relax for a while and come back to it later.
If you have no instructions then the best thing is for you to tell us the name and model of the 10g tank and stand you have bought and we may be able to help you more, OR alternatively search/google it to see how it looks when assembled.
Don't give up, we are here to help and get you into this great hobby.
30+ years in the hobby and theres always something new to learn