she means what she says, she doesn't know what you like...she might feel embarrassed if it's nothing you like too, that could also be a possibility. Or she could be one of those girl that think only the guys should give presents. My mom is like that lol. But if she says she doesn't know what you like, you should trust her when she says that, cause she probably means it. I feel that way most of the time too when I try to get my bf something. I do observe him and "casually" ask him questions to get more info so as to not spoil my surprise for him lol. If she gets you something, she probably just wants it to be something that you will for sure like, so she might be "afraid" to get you something, more like pressured I guess to get you something that you will definitely like. I'm always like this too. But that doesn't stop me from getting my bf gifts, I'm not that afraid, but your gf probably is.
And zachary is right, that's very true. An object isn't going to do anything for you, but her actual love will. I know you feel doubt from her because she isn't returning the favor, but just because she doesn't get you anything back doesn't mean she doesn't love you. A materialistic relationship is never good, if you ask me.
I'm a girl, experience
· 8 years ago