Mmmmm, passion, obsession, just your usual relationship topics, nothing spectacular.
I've done a lot of research on Venus-Pluto and it basically told me nothing. Some people say Venus loves and Pluto obsesses, other people say Venus obsesses and Pluto doesn't feel a thing.
What seemed like a good advice was to try to keep our egos out of the picture (far easier said than done) because Pluto tends to become quite destructive when used for personal gratification. And guess whether when Pluto is involved and you are totally utterly obsessing over someone it will ever occur to you that maybe you shouldn't try to keep that person for yourself, yeah, right.
I've been going through a Venus-Pluto conjunction in synasty for many years now and the cycle doesn't appear to be anywhere near completion. Good news is Pluto brings big changes, positive changes, and the less you try to possess, the fewer the scars you'll have to bear.
What I have found that works for me is to look at the other person as catalyst for inner change not as a savior I should stick to. That what happens when I think of him and when I am with him is actually me, these are parts of me that I have buried deep and his presence (in my mind or physical) brings them to surface. That's the only way for me to pass through what is going on and to actually be grateful for the experience. And it took me years to reach that conclusion.
So be careful with Pluto, it's probably going to be a tough battle. But like most tough battles, there seems to be a big prize in the end. Good luck. You'll need it.
· 8 years ago