34 year old male virgin?

Question

I am a 34 year old male virgin feeling so frustrated and restless for not having sex with a girl. Also i have become shy and unable to mingle with girls always worried about what girls think of men like me. i am unable to control my desires. is it okay for a man to be virgin at the age of 34. Girls please advice me.

Answer 1

you shouldn't be shy or embarrassed because of that. If you're virgin, it would be pity to lose virginity with girl that means nothing to you, so you shouldn't have one night stands or something like that. Women usually appreciate when man treats her right, when he doesn't see her just like sex-toy so they could appreciate you because you respect their wishes while you wait for love of your life. Just find the right one, your one and only and when you think that's that, just do it.

Answer 2

It just shows that you're not a dog who's life and choices are controlled by his sexual urges. I have a lot of respect for men like you!

Answer 3

mate im not a girl, but i have two friends in the same position as you. your not alone. why not do singles nights answers ads in papers even bite the bullet and go speed dating after awhile your be a champ at it. learn to deal with rejection its all good life lessons just think who give a fu*ck life to short to be shy. or have a holiday in Amsterdam for a weekend and go crazy i know a few people who have done that too. its all cool baby!!! x

regarding this "i am unable to control my desires" smash one out!! girls dont like nutters stay calm and cool brother
good luck xx

Answer 4

You are not the only 34year old male virgin. You need to get out and mix with the opposite sex, you may meet the perfect woman for you , then you will be glad you waited......................

Answer 5

I'd personally be startled if I went on a date 34 year old man who was still a virgin, but there are some subcultures where it's quite normal: devoutly religious types do expect abstinence before marriage, for example. And there are a ton of, shall we say, "unwilling" virgins like yourself... some people have a very hard time with dating and relationships.

You have options, obviously. The fastest one would be to hire a professional from a reputable escort agency. If you are really that awkward around women, it might be your best option, too. But if you are looking more to get into relationships, why not try online dating? Corresponding via email and chat before you meet lets you get to know each other a bit and lets you do some of the getting-to-know-you stuff in a comfortable, relaxing environment.

And maybe look into talking with a therapist about your social anxiety around women. It's a skill like anything else and you *can* learn it even if it doesn't come naturally.