a serious relationship is where you take your partner seriously. no flirting with other girls, no cheating, no games, lots of attention, lost of caring, treating each other good, supporting eachother, getting to know eachother on the deeper level..all that good stuff. If it really doesnt sound fun to you then youre too young to understand and should not even get in relationships yet, bc often times thats what girls want
they are sought after bc everyone wants to feel loved. Lust is good, but it doesnt feed the soul like love does.