Abusive relationship with boyfriend-10 points best answer!!!!?

my boyfriend and I have been going out for quite some time now he is a very sweet guy..but sometimes he starts to get very rude for example-he was being very hurtful to me and swearing at me and telling me to **** off i told him that he cannot talk to me like that i'm a woman and i want to be treated in a... show more my boyfriend and I have been going out for quite some time now
he is a very sweet guy..but sometimes he starts to get very rude
for example-he was being very hurtful to me and swearing at me and telling me to **** off
i told him that he cannot talk to me like that
i'm a woman and i want to be treated in a nice way-and i also said that he is hurting my feelings by talking to me like that-he said he doesnt care about my feelings
he usually talks about spending his whole life with me
and then suddenly he says he doesnt care
and he says im always the reason for the fights
im not :( :(
he doesnt understand me
but i really love him.wish he'd understand how much i love him and care for him

what do i do?

SHOULD i give him space
why is he behaving like that
should i wait for him to call
should i ignore his calls/texts for a few days!!
HELP!!!
Update: @ Scott-thanx man :)

@mjc-i don't have to educate myself about relationships

and the other answerer-it is abuse its called Verbal Abuse
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