I'm a girl, I had a guy, who I thought was very good looking pursuing me for a month. He would say and do many things to get my attention and show he wanted to date me. But my answer was always a clear no. He was very good looking and smart, but the reason I never agreed to date him is because I felt like I was an object to him, another notch on his belt. This is not how he behaved toward me, but what I saw in him when he spoke to his friends ( and he didn't realize I was listening). Also saw how he spoke about other people, his behavior toward me and others, his views about relationships, I asked him for something and saw him brag to his friend how he was getting me--- the last part where I asked him for something was a test to see his sincerity---seeing how he spoke about me to his friends, he clearly didn't have any. My point here is looks aren't everything, while they may be a starting point, they don't mean you would have a lasting relationship. Treat the person you are interested in the way you would want to be treated. Do you want someone who just dates u cause you're only good looking, and does not value anything else you have to offer? If not, why are you only looking for what you consider "hot girls"?