can aesthetic attraction or admiration for a person's looks determine your sexuality?
because I, 15, a guy, respect and admire guys for their looks, meaning how thin, tall, fit, and mature looking they are, with their well-built bodies, and clean-cut (shaved) faces, and I think about how they look, wishing to be like them. does this mean I'm gay?
btw, i'm not attracted to the guys
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
I love the way this girl looks: http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTV30Wh7su...
I'm not at all attracted to her, I just have an aesthetic admiration for how she looks. Seriously.
I think that you can be attracted to somebody without being sexually attracted to them.
For instance, I LOVE the way the older Leonardo Dicaprio looks. Would I ever go out with him if he were somebody I knew IRL and he asked me? Probably not, but god I love the way he looks. He just looks so cool now.
- MzCalypsoLv 710 years ago
You've got it backwards. Your sexual orientation determines the attraction toward other guys.
Aesthetic admiration is one thing. Attraction is a different critter. You're going to have to sort this out yourself.
- Anonymous10 years ago
I wouldn't say that makes you gay. Unless your attracted to the guys.
- WitchLv 610 years ago
That doesn't make you gay