can aesthetic attraction or admiration for a person's looks determine your sexuality?

because I, 15, a guy, respect and admire guys for their looks, meaning how thin, tall, fit, and mature looking they are, with their well-built bodies, and clean-cut (shaved) faces, and I think about how they look, wishing to be like them. does this mean I'm gay?


btw, i'm not attracted to the guys

4 Answers

  • 10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I love the way this girl looks:

    I'm not at all attracted to her, I just have an aesthetic admiration for how she looks. Seriously.

    I think that you can be attracted to somebody without being sexually attracted to them.

    For instance, I LOVE the way the older Leonardo Dicaprio looks. Would I ever go out with him if he were somebody I knew IRL and he asked me? Probably not, but god I love the way he looks. He just looks so cool now.

  • 10 years ago

    You've got it backwards. Your sexual orientation determines the attraction toward other guys.

    Aesthetic admiration is one thing. Attraction is a different critter. You're going to have to sort this out yourself.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I wouldn't say that makes you gay. Unless your attracted to the guys.

  • Witch
    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    That doesn't make you gay

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