people like you and especially the poster named sarah dont get the damage they are doing to themselves and their parents by cruelly excluding people at their weddings. the ignorance is quite breathtaking, the eagerness to hurt people is ugly.
dont worry, these people you are snubbing, rudely hurting, believe me, believe me, these same people will still be in your life, all your life because they are still part of the family no matter that on your " your " day you decided to hurt them, and pretend they arent, and they will take particular, dellicious
pleasure in doing the same to you. when your children are born and there are birthday parties for all the cousins who are your childrens ages YOUR children wont be WONT BE invited.
when there are weddings, anniversaries, parties, birthdays, holidays, you YOU will be sitting all alone wondering why no one remembers your exisitence. why you are not part of the family.
it may not matter to you now but oh boy will it matter later.
so you can keep that chip on your shoulder, getting heavier and heavier as the years go by, and as you get older you will realize that being generous, kind and polite, words that are obviously unknown to you, would have helped your mother and family not have to make excuses for your cruelty, and would have made everyones life easier.
people dont look down on you and sarah and all the rest of the brides who think this way because of poor upbringing and lack of class, they look down on you becasue you have a bad, ungracious attitude. you have a bad attitude, and this will cause destruction to you all your life.
everyone at your wedding deserves a smile, a greeting, and a kind hug. give and you will receive so much. or dont, and reap what you sow. living your life to get revenge on people is called being poor in spirit. if you live your life that way it will seems as if everyone has more than you. but it is not about money. graciousness is free.